There is a family owned orchard near champaign that is a big hit for grad students (and their parents, when in town.) I was browsing their website today (because my mom is coming to town in october and I want to take her there) and in a faq-ish section of their homepage was the following:
Q: What can I do?
A: Fill your stomach, relax and have fun!
These are words to live by. I should get them tattooed on my forehead and both of my forearms (so I can see them as well as so I can project them to others.)